What's in the daily news? I'll tell you what's happening in the daily news. Double standards for pimps and hoes transgress cultures. A girls puts out in America a little too much, and she's a s**t. A guy gets a lot of action, and he's a pimp. A girl goes out with a guy in Egypt, and she's used. A guy goes out with a couple of girls, and well, that's not too odd.
Girls have high expectations to live up to in Egypt. Many guys won't marry a woman who has ever dated a man before. And, when I say dated, I don't mean slept with nor kissed. I mean the literal definition: going out on dates just the two of them. Why would a guy care if a girl he likes dated a boy in high school? Because the guy wants the girl just to himself, he doesn't want her to "know" any other man other than him. A wife is supposed to be the one thing in life that a guy can truly call his own. He won't just be her first kiss, but he'll be her everything, her provider. So, this is what guys want. Or at least, they say that.
Guys have tough lives until they get married. Most of them want to marry the innocent, untouched girl, but until then, they still want to get to "know" girls. A lot of guys don't want to kiss a girl before marrying her, but they wouldn't be opposed to dating a girl. A lot of guys want to actually get action (they rarely get it). And, there are guys that don't want to do anything but marry a girl -- these guys have the worst game and when they meet a new, single girl the first thing that comes to their mind is the possibility of marrying her. It's a rare case for a guy and girl to be anything more than acquaintances unless of course they're together.
Since a girl can't know a guy before marriage, she must try to avoid all guys trying to approach her. If she is seen talking with a random guy, people might talk (I'm using this logic's language). So, it's hard to meet someone when you're always on the defensive. Likewise, it's hard for guys to meet girls because they are always on the defensive.
It's cultural. It's relative. That's just how it is. ?. But is there hypocrisy? Many guys want to sleep with women before marriage, many just want to date before marriage, but the majority doesn't want to marry a girl who has dated before. It looks like people are asking for two contradictory things.
